Alright, so now there is just one little guy around here with me in the afternoon.
And that little guy takes a hearty nap in the afternoon.
So I am "all alone" in the afternoon.
I'm not going to lie. I love it.
It really helps to recharge these old batteries.
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Let's talk about feeding my family.
There is something about it that leaves me confused and staring off into space.
It should be a no brainer right? Cook food. Feed food.
But what was happening was, Avery didn't eat a ton at school (that's typical of her. when she is in an exciting environment, she has a hard time focusing on food).
So of course she'd come home hungry and eat the crap-o-la that I packed in her lunch box: it's chaotic and Evan is helping himself to the lunch box snacks, backpacks are open and papers are flying around everywhere,
I finish making dinner among the after school chaos, but I am the only one who eats it because no one is hungry anymore...
So
my solution is to have the table set and dinner ready to go the minute they walk in the door (which is close to 4:00)
Now
they stumble in the house and I circle them around the table. We sit down and fill our bellies with healthy food, we talk about their school day, a pitcher of ice water fills their glasses. We are all together again, calm and comforted.
The backpacks/papers/homework are left untouched until dinner is over.
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Let's talk about the bus ride.
We live as far away from the school as you can get, so their bus rides take forever.
It really bothers me, and I'm glad we won't be living in this house for long.
A few times Avery has fallen asleep on the ride home.
Yesterday when the bus pulled up, I climbed aboard to help her wake up because she was OUT. Drooling.
I love the days she falls asleep. It lets her recover from a busy day meanwhile oblivious to how long the drive is, and how crazy the other kids are. Sleep away, Avery.
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Now let's talk about how much I love their teachers.
They are so so wonderful.
Being on the "mom" side of the teacher/parent relationship helps me to realize what an important figure a teacher is. It makes me want to be a better teacher.
Mrs. Shapiro is the rock star of the first grade. It's a complete gamble who you get (you can't request), and I am so thankful for her.
Her style completely jives with my own teaching philosophies. These first few weeks they are establishing a respectful community in their classroom. There is peace and love and order.
So far Evan has only gone two days, but I know most of his teachers, and they pretty much fell from heaven into our laps.
If my kids are going to spend 1/3 of their day away from my home, it makes me feel so happy to know they are with these women. Really. I've never felt such love for teachers before.